I have found that one of the best ways to get that "Normal use look" is to go to the kitchen and leave the knife on the counter and let the family use it for about a week. By the time it cuts, dices, slices, soaks in the dishwater for several days it will have the look you are wanting.
What you can do is detirmined mostly by the material used for the handle.
I usually age my materials to the desired patina before assembly. A bleach wash will age the blade 100 years in about 20 minutes. Strong tea works well on bone or antler, let it soak to the desired color.
If the blade is stainless you may never get it to the point you desire.
If it is carbon steel, and you do not wish to take any chances, get some cold blue and apply it to the blade, then steel wool the daylights out of it for the wear pattern you want.
If you live where no one will bother the knife, just leave it out on the back porch table through a couple of weeks weather, brush the rust off and oil it down.
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