I would just use the wet-sanding method Zonie described above. Dilute tung oil about 50/50 with mineral spirits, dunk your sandpaper (320-grit is about the optimum... 400-grit is just too fine and doesn't produce enough dust fast enough) in the diluted tung oil, and sand with the grain. (Thinning the oil makes it easier to work with, and helps it soak into the wood giving you a more durable finish.)
You will end up with a slurry of dust-filled oil on the surface of the wood. Wipe that slurry very gently (we're talking no pressure here... as lightly as you can wipe it) ACROSS the grain at an angle. This will fill the pores with the dust-filled oil slurry (think along the same lines as working grout into tile joints). Let it dry for 24 hours and repeat until your grain is filled. Will probably take at least 3 or 4 wet sandings, maybe up to ten. You have to let the wood completely dry between sandings, because even though the pores will look filled after the first one or two sandings, when it dries, the stuff will shrink up and you'll see the pores again. When you don't see any more pores in the wood after the drying period, you know you're there.
When you're done, not only is your grain filled, but you have a nice durable finish on the wood, and you could literally stop there. Adding more coats on top of that to provide a surface finish is completely optional.