It isn't unusual for a cap to be blown apart when it's fired.
One of the more frustrutating things to have happen is for the cap NOT to be blown apart so it is sitting tightly seated on the nipple.
I have found that the only way to get these stuck caps off is to use a small set of plyers or take my knife and pry it off.
The "hot shot" nipple has two little holes in the side of it which help to blow the cap apart so the stuck cap issue doesn't cause problems.
By the way, if your gun is like several of mine, you may find the cap has been pasted inside of the hammer nose cavity instead of being just "blown away".
When this happens, the next cap is actually being pounded by the remains of the old cap and because it is softer than the steel of the hammer, the next shots may not fire the cap instantly (like we would like). In fact, if several caps have deposited themselves in this cavity, the gun may misfire.
As for the plugging of the touch hole, it sounds to me like your using either too much fluid, or your wiping down too far.
When your wiping the bore keep this idea in mind: You want the damp (not dripping wet) patch to moisten the fouling on the way down, and to wipe it out on the way up.
You do not want to "wash" the inside of the barrel.
Of course, you do not want to use a patch which is too dry either. That is a sure fire way to get the patch and jag stuck in the bore.
You do not want to wipe clear to the face of the breech plug. You need to only wipe down to the hardened "ring" of fouling which forms about where the ball will be seated on the powder charge, then just about 1/8 inch farther.
This will minimize the amount of fouling you break off of the barrel wall and deposit in the drum or in the "patent breech" or "snail" hole but still assure a clear bore for the ball down to the powder.