I don’t think it a matter of handling the recoil. It’s just what’s needed.I'm sure as a hunter you know that a full pass through equates to better blood trails. And before you say deer don't go far enough to need them, if you shoot enough deer there will always come a day where blood trails help find a deer.
I really don't get why some guys get so pushy about light loads. If you can't handle the recoil fine but don't pretend there is no benefit from more energy and a flatter trajectory of going higher. Particularly if it produces accurate results.
Tiny bullets from a modern gun need high velocity and high energy yields to get the needed mushrooming, but most of the energy is out in the air on the off side.
However that thinking shadows our concepts of low power ml.
Even a maxi is low velocity and ballistically poor.
Except for a rifle like the hexagon bore whitworth that had an early style modern bullet down range performance is poor.
One has to look not at MV but terminal.
L and C had boxes, four pounds of powder and eight pounds of lead. That means a hundred and ten grain charge in their .54s, but over two hundred for their .69 .
Umph
How ever American powder was pretty low quality
Home made guns in the nineteenth century tends to see lower chargers, concurrent with improved home grown powder. This is civilian and military.
We don’t hunt deer with a .458, or .62 nitro express.
Dead deer is dead deer. And if you load a magnum load, ‘loaded for ba’r’ you get venison stew. So you don’t lose, you haven’t done any thing wrong. But compared to a .45 with a 60 grain charge you get the same stew.