M.D. said:
Have her talk to her doc about it, I'm sure he can allay her fears. MD
So can any health-and safety in the workplace inspector.
Sure, lead CAN be a problem, and used to be so, as it is accumulative in the body. Persons at high risk of lead poisoning were plumbers, makers of ladies facial potions [yup, white lead], those engaged in the automobile battery manufacturing trade and others where large amounts of lead in one form or another were part of the daily handling or breathing.
I've missed out, BTW, those for whom lead, fast-moving and in relatively small amounts, can be lethally dangerous - persons in the Armed Forces and law enforcement.
Many of us here handling lead, maybe every week, take the usual precautions about handling any potentially dangerous or health-threatening substance. Most, like me, do their casting either out in the open door of their shop/garage, or have a well-ventilated workplace. We wash our hands after handling the stuff, even though while casting, we've been wearing protective gloves [haven't we?].
Like many here, I've been casting bullets and ball for many years, probably 40+, and apart from going bald, nothing except my hair seems to have fallen off.
Take the usual precautions and you'll be fine. Just don't go sawing or grinding lead and then inhaling it or chomping down the odd spoonful of lead dust and all will be well.
tac