Thanks for the responses. I'm gonna follow your advice and start reducing the weight of the cookware ASAP.
You need to tell us what you want to cook!
Big difference between a lone fellow who treks with the smallest Potje and has decided (rightfully so) that this is too much iron...
And the guy who is cooking and baking and for several folks, eh? Two men and a boy can unload a LOT of stuff. but that doesn't mean there are not more than three mouths to feed.
You need, Copper and Tin, and perhaps a French, Steel skillet
You want a "pouring pot"". You can find these at Westminster Forge, and other places. They look like a pot with a spout BUT they have an internal half-wall that allows the pot to serve as a strainer, so you can boil potatoes, turnips, carrots, broccoli, any chunky veggie, and one man can handle pouring off the water. They also sever as a cookpot or as an excellent coffee pot..., or hot water kettle if folks want hot water for tea, cocoa, instant oatmeal (hey kids don't always put up with authentic) or rinsing dishes.
You want a second, standard pot. Round with a lid. Tin or copper is fine. For boiling noodles, rice, stew, etc.
Between the two pots, within them you store your dish towels, dish soap, hot pot pads, small and large kitchen knife, stone for the knives, cooking spoon, measuring cup, measuring spoons if you need them, scrubbing pad, matches and fire starters, candles, and..., an old pair of channel lock pliers.... these become one of your best tools for grabbing onto anything that has a bale that has fallen over, or lifting a lid.
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You get a good grill NOT a tripod. You can broil on a grate, you can roast on it, you can adjust the fire, high heat under one end, low simmer under the other, etc. I put the grill on the bottom of the kitchen box, I put the cutting board on top of the grill, then the pots on that. then I build a box to fit it all.
You will want a Carbon Steel skillet about 11" size , and you want a second about 9.5" . Check around for a restaurant supply store, but you want something like this:
The problem is that if you can't go to a restaurant supply store they tend to double the price with shipping. Carbon steel is the least expensive, and heats up quickly. Some folks take off the handles as they get in the way of packing, but leave a small bit attached to the rivets. Those pliers will work to handle the skillet(s). Allows for coving one skillet with another that is overturned, to bake biscuits...
AVOID things like these. IMHO the ears for the bales are much too large to use this as a large coffee mug, and there is no spout to aid your pouring.
Lastly, keep your eyes peeled for a pair of brass buckets in antique shops. These you keep filled for fire buckets as most sites require, and they work at night after the meal for the soapy water and rinse water containers when washing dishes. You get metal buckets such as brass because they may be used to heat water if you need it when something like a wooden or canvas bucket cannot be used.
LD