IMO, sanding to 600 weight paper is kind of a waste of time on wood.
I think it is also counterproductive when it comes to whiskering.
I mean, you can only get a naturally rough surface so smooth because as you sand, your opening up new pores on the surface.
As for whiskering, IMO, you want to use something that will actually cut off the whisker, not shove it back down into the place it popped up out of.
I don't feel that a super fine paper like 600 grit will cut off the fiber. It only pushes it back down.
This is the reason it keeps popping back up when you re-dampen the wood.
I also think that whiskering is (or should be) a seperate issue from boning or burnishing.
This process, IMO also just pushes the fiber back down. Because of this, I feel the processes will work best if they are treated seperately.
First, sand to remove all traces of forming, and cross grain sanding.
Second, whisker the surfaces using NEW, sharp paper.
Third, burnish (bone) the surface if desired. This process does not remove any wood. It merely smooths and polishes the surface.
As for using steel wool prior to staining, I can say I've been there and done that.
After whiskering, I decided to steel wool the surface so it would be nice and smooth. I applied a stain which had some water in it and it looked great! 15 minutes later it had developed thousands of red freckles. They were everywhere! :cursing:
I ended up resanding, rewhiskering and restaining to get rid of the dam things!
Zonie