If you ever field dress a deer shot with a round ball, you will find different results. The primary wound channel will be caliber size, and larger as the RB expands. There is no evidence of a secondary wound channel, because the ball is not traveling fast enough to develop the following "cone " off its backside, like a high speed, modern bullet does. When a modern rifle bullet( not RB) hits flesh, it has a small, caliber diameter primary wound channel, and a much larger secondary wound channel, cause by that trailing cone- a vaccuum-- that first pushes aside tissues around the primary wound channel, and then " sucks " the tissues towards the PWC, tearing blood vessels, and organ tisses by that action.
A lot more damage is done with a modern bullet than with a RB. Just check a shoulder shot with a RB, and compare it to one made with any modern bullet. There is far less meat destroyed by the RB, than with the Modern bullet.
What you say about shock also depends on the size of the RB, and the speed at impact. That .458 may not have disturbed much wood, but wood is much tougher than tissue, in humans or animals. Actually, if you cut a cross section of that log you shot with the .458, and looked at the cells through a microscope, you would see lots of signs of damage due to the shock of that bullet. In softer tissues, the shock helps to mash the tissues in to liquid and "hamburger".
I am not trying to put down the shocking power of large caliber RB, or disagreeing with your observations, to the extent they go. I am merely pointing out the difference between your test materials and real living flesh and bone, and also pointing out that because of those differences, a microscope might be better able to allow you to assess the true damage done with that .458 bullet.
BTW, I did this same experiment with a fresh Elm Stump, back when I was about 12 years old. We didn't have any Mler then, but we fired a bullet from a Springfield Trapdoor rifle into that log, and then had to split it apart( talk about hard work!) to find the bullet, and follow the bullet hole channel through the log. The all lead bullet did not mushroom( a surprise for us) but did rub off about 1/8" of lead off the nose, and enough lead off the sides that the recovered bullet was now .43 caliber, but still showed the grease grooves. The base was squeezed a bit, and was no longer square to the length of the bullet, but it could still be stood on end. We measured 13 inches of wood that were penetrated by that slug.