Turkhunter said:
Amen brother. I understand that people want to be as pc/hc at rondys as possible but as you say this guy paid a dear price for folks to "play mountain man". If he were with me and someone complained about the cot after the circumstances were politely explained that someone would get a busted beak.
You need to tread very carefully with an attitude like that. So much depends upon the stated/published guidelines for any specific event.
Once you see the "rules", it is then up to you to either meet or exceed their "rules". If you cannot do that, then you need to decide not to attend that specific event.
Plus the "rules" or guidelines vary a lot between events/sites. There is no generic set of rules/guidelines to cover all events.
If you are unsure about some of the possible rules/guidelines for a specific event, then contact them to ask and find out BEFORE you show up at the gate. It is not up to the event to change their rules to meet your circumstances. Most will work with you - IF you give them a chance to do so, and any accomidations are not too far outside their existing rules/guidelines.
So be careful about an "in your face" attitude. It can get you booted out or even banned.
Just some thoughts to share. Take them as such.
Mikey - that grumpy ol' German blacksmith out in the Hinterlands
- who once had to deal with a couple who DEMANDED to be able to park their camper right next to their tent in the middle of camp - because they didn't ... want to ... sleep in their tent, and the parking lot was just too far away (50 yards). They offered to drape some canvas over it to "hide" it. NO, they did not have any medical reasons/conditions for it - just their desire to sleep in their camper. Their ... bad attitude ... about it was even worse than their request! They were told to not bother coming back again - even before they started playing their casette tape of "pow-wow" music non-stop!