LHunter,
I taught 4th grade and until I retired I did flint/steel fires with my students. They watched it done and then I had pairs try it. Most pairs got a fire going. A few had trouble getting sparks - usually not a quick enough strike or an angle problem. I would land a spark for them and let them finish.
Here is something not to do, especially with folks watching. Make sure you are not facing into the wind when starting the fire:
In one case, I lifted my birds nest up to blow on it. The wind blew the smoke back into my face, and I ended up choking while my char burned up completely.
In another, the breeze blew a piece of char back toward me, landing in my beard. I ended up trying to put myself out before starting a fire. I now insist that any fourth graders that try a fire be clean shaven.
Regards,
Pletch