Somewhat related to my reasoning behind a topic I posted a few months ago about how relatively few of us actually know eachother.... I hope the folks in the examples I gave don't mind.
There are 6 pages already of condolences and we'll wishes for a forum member that just lost his dad,,, most if not all of us did not know either of them. 13 pages for Zonie passing. Many other similar topics with several pages for family of members, again,,,, most of whom none of us know.
Maybe if a few of you/us had treated
@Britsmoothy and Spence with the same respect they would still be here sharing their adventures, knowledge and inspiration with us.
Maybe if some egos were kept in check, and a little humility was demonstrated, along with a whole lot of, "mind your damn business," on the part of the fella starting legal issues,,,, we wouldn't be having this conversation.
You may think you know it all,,, but you don't.
You may think your way is the only way or the best way,,, but it probably isn't the only way,,, and it is only the best way if you can prove it.
How many here got on a high horse when asked to prove something or disprove something that might be somewhat controversial in discussions with either gentleman?
If you got uppity and rude when asked for evidence of something you asserted but couldn't prove,,,, you are the reason we are having this conversation.
If you make all your statements about your methods and equipment in a manner to suggest that you know all and your way is the best or only way,, you are the reason we keep having these conversations.
As to those who claim to think that it's only words and they don't matter and can't really hurt anyone... Do some honest heartfelt soul searching. You are wrong. Can you honestly tell yourself, never mind me or anyone else, that you can't think of anything you have said to someone no matter how long ago that you'd desperately like to take back? I realize that I am dealing with some mega-egos here, but can you honestly tell yourself that you can't think of things said to you, even as a kid, that don't effect you to this day, at least when you think about them? Maybe these are the reasons behind your b.s. bravado and resistance to proving what you say?
Some people try to give advice and help people because they like to,,, like Spence and Britsmoothy,,,, others only post their "advice" to stroke their own ego and get attention. How many of the former do we need to loose? I think the former are more likely to be the type to get fed up and leave...