I'm thinking that the "break in" option seems best. Treat them like your making brain tan from scratch.
There was a gentleman on here making very well made propper deerskin breeches, he had a topic on it, but I can't remember his screen name. If I come up with it, I'll post it here and tryptophan draw his attention to your situation.
Edit: it was
@andy52 I was trying to think of. I'm curious about his take on the construction of those (something looks off to me regarding the fly, but I'm no expert) and how he would proceed.