Interesting discussion. I like the back n forth as i get two perspectives in loud clarity, which makes me think.
I have experienced the "stuck" wedge problem as well on Pietta revolvers. I have a great way to deal with this and it has never let me down.
Being an old Cat mechanic, the old bigger pry bar and heavier hammer thing has worked for me with very few oops ... however revolvers hardly require either method for successful fixin.
I own a couple Lyman punch sets and the corresponding hammer with each set to include the screw in heads for the hammer face ( very aggravating for me as they require constant tightening).
I take the plastic hammer face on one side and the brass face on the other. I begin tapping with the hard plastic end and if this does nothing, then i turn the hammer over and use the brass face. I for-go the punch as I believe the cold harsh impact without the shock reducing effect of a punch is what is required in these instances. This has worked every time for me and i also believe in holding the revolver left side down in the palm of my left hand when doing such.
If i inadvertently "peen" the right side of the wedge [ have done so once on a very reluctant wedge ] then when i get it loosened I proceeded to file back the slight flair of the peen BEFORE trying to completely remove the wedge through the barrel/arbor slots.
Anyhew ... that's my penny for my thoughts.