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@Thekingd93 !
For household ingredients, Crisco is likely a good starting place, just to get you going. Meanwhile, if it were me, I would browse the vendor websites and order a cake of natural beeswax, and a tin of whatever commercial lube appeals to you. You can try mixing the beeswax with your Crisco to make it a little stiffer. Easier to store and less messy in the heat.
I'm still working my way through a supply of Old Zip Patch Grease from Dixie Gun Works. I'm down to one open tin, and one un-opened. This was a mix of sheep tallow and beeswax, although I don't remember the proportions. Dixie no longer carries it... We suspect somebody was offended by the name. Whatever...
There was a recent and pretty extensive thread about using meat drippings for lube. I believe the consensus, if we ever really achieved one, was that the fat in meat drippings was likely overheated, making them less satisfactory than tallow or fat that was properly rendered. It's easy to make your own tallow, and you can probably get the raw material (animal fat trimmings) for next to nothing from the local butcher.
I remember reading a while back in the memoirs of a leading shooting expert how he got his start in reloading, using black powder for an
S&W double action .44 Special unmentionable. He made a viscous slurry of Ivory soap, swished his home-cast bullets in it, and let them dry. This apparently worked pretty well, although I have not tried it, and I expect there are some other lubes that might be better. However, his lube was cheap and it served his purpose. I don't know about now, but Ivory used to be real soap, made with fat. I don't know if their formula has changed or not.
Conventional wisdom maintains some sort of animal or plant-based grease is best for lubricants with black powder, and I think beeswax would be preferable in every way to paraffin, crayons, or old candle stubs for the wax component. I understand toilet rings have beeswax in them, but it has likely been adulterated with who knows what, and you will probably find straight beeswax is cheaper than a manufactured toilet ring anyhow. Even if it isn't, the little extra you spend on natural beeswax will likely pay off in terms of better shooting, softer fouling, and easier cleaning.
Best regards,
Notchy Bob