I like the effect that aqua fortis gets you, but the last build I did had exotic inlays in it, and if you put aqua fortis on pretty much anything except maple, you may get 'bleeding,' which will ruin your project...
so, if you're doing anything other than maple, I would urge you to try a test piece before you commit an expensive stock (into which you've plowed a boatload of your time).
you should definitely neutralize the AF ... if you don't, your stock will eventually turn black ...
aaaargh!!
I'm a fan of LMF ... it's an alcohol based stain, so you can cut it back and use several coats, thus making the stain more even and affording the user much more control.
for final finish, I'd go with Permalyn or Tru-Oil. Permalyn has a sealer, then a final coat (or coats) and if you don't like the gloss, you can rub some OOOO steel wool on it and cut back the sheen. TruOil is nice, but takes many many coats - same with the sheen.
A high gloss finish will allow for more of the nuances of the grain to be visible, but many folks can't stand the shine - it can look like plastic to some. If you take the shine back, you may lose some of the definition of the figure in the wood... Zonie explained this to me as follows: think of a brook. you want to see the rocks at the bottom, so if the water is smooth, you'll see everything, but if there are ripples, you won't get as much detail.
as an aside, I have tried BLO (boiled linseed oil) finishes, and they didn't work at all well.
good luck with your project!