Getting old I miss those who are gone. But there are things I miss a lot more.
I grew up in a civil community in a civil society. If I misbehaved not only did the community at large let me know, they also told my family. There was both a belief and a commitment to standards of behavior. My parents would not have objected if a neighbor swatted my butt. Neither were they concerned when the retired guy next door taught me things about wood working. I received a Mossberg .22 unmentionable for Christmas when I was 6. I already knew the rules and was watched carefully until the adults knew that I was careful and responsible.
By the time I was 9 and we were at the Great Bay in New Jersey I was on the water all day in a 16 foot garvey. Usually ran it out of gas and drifted/.polled/rowed for an hour or two to get home. There were watermen. They lived off of harvesting clams and crabs. They watched me and, when I got in trouble, fixed it.
Please pardon me if you are offended when I observe that the world is NOT a better place now.
I grew up in a civil community in a civil society. If I misbehaved not only did the community at large let me know, they also told my family. There was both a belief and a commitment to standards of behavior. My parents would not have objected if a neighbor swatted my butt. Neither were they concerned when the retired guy next door taught me things about wood working. I received a Mossberg .22 unmentionable for Christmas when I was 6. I already knew the rules and was watched carefully until the adults knew that I was careful and responsible.
By the time I was 9 and we were at the Great Bay in New Jersey I was on the water all day in a 16 foot garvey. Usually ran it out of gas and drifted/.polled/rowed for an hour or two to get home. There were watermen. They lived off of harvesting clams and crabs. They watched me and, when I got in trouble, fixed it.
Please pardon me if you are offended when I observe that the world is NOT a better place now.