update: jus got word from Swampy dr's appt..
"Doc update, she put me through some tests, held my pulse in my wrist while I moved my arms in different positions and lost my pulse every time. So she thinks it's a vascular problem, not sure where its originating from so setup another appointment with another Doc to do a Doppler test on my upper body. It measures blood flow blah blah and wants to see the test results of the MRI that was done on my neck. So something is preventing or slowing down the blood flow to my arms/hands. Looking like, when they fixed my back to straighten it a few years ago, it has caused other problems. Anyway, will know more after they do the Doppler test."
figure that's good news,, they at least know what problem is! will keep y'all updated..