Wall tents, marquis and wedge tents date back to the ancient greeks. Any size or material you can imagine. Alexander the Great faced a mutney in Persia when he ordered his men to abandon their sheepskin wedges.
To start off you should go with a wedge tent. (I have two wall tents and three wedges) To accomodate yourself and your daugnter I recomend a "medium" wedge. 7' tall, 8'wide, 9' long. This is large enough to stand in, move around some (as in changing clothes), lay out your bedding and still have room to store all the "girl stuff" in the back. Two women can set this tent up with ease (10 minutes, with practice). This tent will allow you to attend any event any where in the U.S. without worry over PC. You will need metal gromets in the top (no one will see them there), and you will need the "sod cloth" around the edges. The sod cloth is not correct for military tents but insist on it anyway, you will be glad it is there on cold windy nights. You will want overlapping door closures also (comfort and privacy).
I sugest you stick with a name brand maker and order direct from the mfg., not from someone at an event with a little sign that says they are a dealer. The makers will deal direct. Panther will send you a catalogue and take your order by phone or on line. I got one of mine from Blockade Runners in Bell Buckle TN and was able to specify the size to the inch with any modifications desired, exact location of the gromets, etc. Price was reasonable too, $275.
You will need only two uprights and a ridge pole. Pins in the top of the uprights usually go into holes drilled in the ridge pole, then through the gromets at the top of the tent. That's the easiest and most common set up. You can make them yourself with only a hand saw, hacksaw, electric drill and hammer. The Panther catalogue has instructions and drawings (has all kinds of other neat stuff as well as tents). The tension of the stakes at the bottom holds the walls upright.
You may decide that you want a wall tent or some other style latter. If you do, the medium wedge makes a nice "extra" tent. Someone will buy it at a reasonable price if you should decide to sell it. You will get your money's worth out of it.
My wife and her sister used a 12x14 wall tent, transported and set it up alone (neither are "big women") before I came along. That is a lot of tent! You and your daughter should have no trouble with a wedge tent, splitting firewood will be the real test. You will need at least one indentured servant for that purpose alone, and possibly for hauling water!
Look around, get some catalogues, check out some tents at events, watch some people set up and tear down their camps before you make a decision and spend your hard earned money. You are talking $250 minimum for tent, stakes and poles. Shop around, stand inside someones tent and move around some. Feel some fabric. Check some seams and listen for who got wet in the big storm. You will be spending 1/3 of your camp time in the tent, make sure you get what you need and want.
Oh yes, you will want an awning also! It will not be an immidiate need but you will want one. If you get the Med wedge the awning should be at least 8x16. This allows one to drop the sides of the awning to the ground and extend the line of the ridge and walls during bad weather, drop one side to block the sun/wind, sleep an additional person. Double the size of your wedge as well as provide shade in good weather.