I'm a counter puncher, someone gets rude with me I tend to react in kind.
Spot on, I don't start things but I have ended a few.
As one boss explained me to management, he is a technician not a politician.
When someone spews technically incorrect stuff and presents it as gospel, then they not only deserve what they get, they need to be shutdown. We have enough Internet lies, we don't need them in a technical area. In fact they need to be snuffed.
Back about 6th grade a young girl decided she had every right to cut in front of me in a line . I just gently moved her out of the line. Well, I have every right. No you do not, you can ask, but you have no right. Ladies first does not apply here.
So she kicked me! I kicked her right back, as easy as I could. She is now totally incensed. You can't do that, you just ruined my nylon! I hate to tell you this, but obviously I can. Well, I am reporting you to the teacher. Go right ahead, no one hits me and does not get hit back, count yourself lucky I pulled the kick. You gave up any deference to being a girl when you kicked me. Off to the back of the line she went. Funny no one else was giving her cuts either.
Yes I was taught you never hit a female. But the flip to that respect is they don't attack you. After that the minimum force needed to stop it. I had one brother who stopped to help a woman in the ditch. Turns out she was drunk and then attacked him. Bro, you should have punched her.