I'm new to the whole traditional aspect, but unless your going for 100% HC, why does it matter what goes "boom" in your gun? I'm in the same boat, 31 years old with a 1 year old and a four year old and a wife. I have to cash cans in to increase my hunting budget (my own I don't go scrounging or begging). I shot Pyro in my modern gun and so far have only shot Pyro in my traditional gun. The reason is purely cost. $20 downtown versus minimum $40 online. I am going to the big city in February and I plan on buying a pound of BP if I can find it, just to see what the fuss is all about. I only know a few people who shoot muzzleloaders and they all shoot Pyro, and modern guns. I wanted to take up traditional muzzleloading because I like the idea of using a traditional gun. My number one goal is to be as accurate as possible, I don't care how I achieve it. And that's my choice. I don't know anyone my age (or older) who shoots a traditional gun. I would never put someone down for using a modern gun. All muzzleloaders are loaded the same.
We are all on the same team, and have the same goal, to enjoy shooting. Traditional muzzleloading, in my opinion, is a dying sport. Everyone who gets into muzzleloading goes the modern route. Why would someone come on here and ask help if they are going to get chastised for something they are using? Rant over