Personally, I thought it was too lighthearted. Studios feel (perhaps rightly so) that if there isn't a romance angle then women won't go see it. Maybe they're right. But its ruined a whole lot of movies.
The Patriot needed to be a grim story. The romance angle only works if it fits organically into the plot, as with LotM. There the whole story is about the protagonist doing something he wouldn't have done otherwise because he was in love. The Patriot was a story about a middle-age warrior returning to his old savage ways for revenge. Dress it up and call it a reversion to the native savagery of man for the most natural of reasons. Romance only distracted from what the movie was actually attempting to be about, and so counterproductive as to make what could have been a great movie into a mediocrity.
The Patriot needed to be a grim story. The romance angle only works if it fits organically into the plot, as with LotM. There the whole story is about the protagonist doing something he wouldn't have done otherwise because he was in love. The Patriot was a story about a middle-age warrior returning to his old savage ways for revenge. Dress it up and call it a reversion to the native savagery of man for the most natural of reasons. Romance only distracted from what the movie was actually attempting to be about, and so counterproductive as to make what could have been a great movie into a mediocrity.