Moose, I know, my aunt is giving my cousin fits too. She fell while trying to fix her toilet, my cousin has been harping at her to get an emergency button. Too late. She broke her pelvis, and is in rehab, which she really can't afford. It's like you say, we have children to take care of. My mom finally gave in and has home health care, now I won't worry so much, and can get back to work.
I would agree with you on the teenager part except for one thing. I was a good teenager.